Growing Older, Growing Lonelier
Growing old isn’t easy – especially when you’re doing it alone.
In fast-paced Singapore, a growing number of seniors are facing just that. The number of elderly residents living alone jumped from 58,000 in 2018 to about 79,000 in 2022. Behind that number are thousands of quiet mornings, empty dining tables, and long days with no one to talk to.
Some seniors live alone by choice, others due to loss or changes in family dynamics. Whatever the reason, one thing is shared: a deep, aching loneliness. And in a city that’s always on the move, it’s all too easy for them to feel left behind.
More than just a shared space
That’s where organisations like Care Community Services Society (CCSS) step in.
At its core, CCSS supports Singapore’s national efforts to bridge social gaps – by bringing connection, care, and a sense of belonging into the everyday lives of individuals. A clear example lies in the network of Active Ageing Centres (AACs) — more than just places to spend time, these are vibrant community hubs where seniors find purpose and connection.
“These spaces are important because they serve as bridges,” explains Kelda, volunteer manager at CCSS. “They connect seniors from all walks of life, offering companionship, care, and above all, a sense of belonging.”
Through a wide range of interest groups – from learning a new instrument like the ukulele to line dancing, hydroponics, and sewing, seniors gather to share not just hobbies but stories, laughter, and friendships. These seemingly simple activities build something profound: community.
Volunteering at the Heart of Connection
At AACs, volunteers do more than offer help — they bring joy, spark connection, and build community. Seniors eagerly join activities like arts and crafts, hydroponics, and music, not just for the fun, but for the friendships they cultivate along the way. These programmes add colour and rhythm to their days, reminding them that it’s never too late to learn something new or form meaningful bonds.
Another CCSS programme is CareLibrary – a programme specially designed for Persons with Dementia. Through inclusive tools like cognitive puzzles, brain gym exercises, and the Bunne Guitar in music therapy, participants stay mentally engaged in a supportive setting. Volunteers play a vital role, gently guiding seniors through songs and stimulating activities that promote joy, connection, and cognitive wellness.
“The willingness to learn and adapt is key,” says Laylian, senior programme executive at CareLibrary. “Volunteers may come with heart, but it’s their commitment that makes the impact.”
It’s that human touch that makes the difference. The seniors aren’t just occupied, they are known, understood, and genuinely cared for. Volunteers remember their names, check in on them, and show up with consistency. It’s this sense of familiarity and warmth that keeps the seniors and volunteers coming back – not out of obligation, but out of choice. Because in these centres, they are truly seen.
Living Fully, Ageing Gracefully
From regular in-centre programme to special outings like a recent trip to Bird Paradise, every experience is a reminder that seniors can continue to age healthily and meaningfully, with the right support. These aren’t just activities. They’re lifelines to joy, purpose, and dignity.
Full Circle Moments
As youths, we often assume that seniors only show up at community centres when accompanied by caregivers or family. But after personally visiting these spaces, our perception has changed.
Many seniors arrive entirely on their own and are excited to participate in the activities. Some come to stretch at exercise classes, others to discover a new skill or hone their talents. But above all, they come for the connection with one another.
And there’s something incredibly heartwarming about that.
In an increasingly digital world, these seniors are showing up – in person, for one another. They remind us that community isn’t built by walls or programmes. It’s built by people who care.
